In the season of Lent, the practice of the church is to pray, fast, give alms. Like most people, I start contemplating what I will “give up” for the next forty days. A couple of weeks ago in Sunday School, we were discussing the season of Lent. The question immediately asked was, “Ms. Shana, aren’t we supposed to give up something?” For some this was familiar, to others a brand new concept. Keep in mind children have no filter. (Kinder thru 5th Grade) Some of the answers were cackle worthy and others you could tell there had been much thought. “I am going to give up dumplings. Not the ones I like. Just the yucky ones!” “I am going to give up feeding my fish!” WAIT WHAT?! To which a sibling replied, “You don’t even have a fish!” Phew! As we worked our way around the circle, I heard, in a thoughtful tone, “Ms. Shana, I am going to give up Legos.” Knowing how much Legos mean to this child I asked, “Are you sure buddy? Forty days without Legos is a lot!” To which he responded, “Well, it is not supposed to be easy. Isn’t it to be something that means a lot to me and that would be hard to not do for 40 days? It will be fine! I can do it!”
I thought about that conversation all week. In a time when taking the easy path seems to be the only path, this young one chose the uncomfortable one. Over the years and attending many studies regarding the seasons of the church and practices within, my approach has changed a bit. I tell the children that the reason we “give up something” is so when we go to do that thing, it gives us pause to remember the season we are in, to help us remain focused and connected to our faith. With children “giving something up” for such a time span does not seem doable. This year, we are committing to “adding” something for forty days. A simple prayer each day, making your bed, being extra kind to your brother or sister were among the top choices.
Chaplain Erin and I took S.W.A.G. (6th-12th grades) to Peter Piper Pizza this past Sunday. We had a small but fabulous group of teens. We ate, chatted, laughed, played games and won prizes. (Skee Ball was the Chaplain’s game of choice) It became apparent to me, that unknowingly, these children were “adding” something very special in this season of Lent. They were creating a space to be present with like-minded, like-hearted youth and just be present. It was beautiful to be part of the day.
Whether you are “giving up something” or “adding something” in these forty days, may your heart, mind and spirit be full of the love of Jesus and may it remind you of the sacrifice that was made for you.
God does mighty things through little people.
Shana Halpin
Director of Children, Youth, and Family Ministries
Christ Church of the Ascension
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